Ban On Money

2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43

Such a request was announced by Margarita.

And it is not for nothing that the girl relies in her story on the prosperous position of her family. There are observations that indicate that people who grew up in better-off families are more likely to have a higher income than people from less well-off families. “Doomed to success” is about them.

There are various examples of why this is so. From children's attitudes that one must live this way, with trips not by metro, but by taxi. Doing homework on your own, and not alone with the governess, have several rooms or a house instead of an apartment, and so on. And all these examples are about the future ambitions of a child who grew up in the house of wealthy parents.

In addition to ambitions, there is also a circle of acquaintances who can help with employment at a high salary. Or acquaintances who will help you start your own business. And these are relatives who will be ready to invest in the “newcomer”, support him both in word and deed.

And there is the same “ancestral complex” that, at the genetic level, disturbs that “entrepreneurial streak” that provides a high level of income in the family where the “success gene” is dominant. After all, not even a century has passed since the former “kulaks” have again created strong farms, someone has a large TV set, and someone has a large shelf of books, and further down the list. The same dominant gene.

As for Margot's family, her mother was dominant. This tall, well-groomed woman had, and still has, in her soul such a steel frame from the Strength of the Spirit and from Power, next to which the "iron Felix" is resting.

Mom Margarita, who dared to violate the foundations of society. With her female hands, she destroyed the cell of society, driving away the child's father. She violated all the norms and all the rules of the family hierarchy, which were "the only true" last century in her personal "environment".

Mom didn't stop there. She worked in a male profession, and earned more than "men". Raised my daughter. In severity. For dad and mom. For mom - she taught perseverance and gratitude, for dad - she was strict, demanded respect. In fact, there was more “daddy” here energetically, and what can we do about it? Mom - she is what she is. Imperious and independent person. Rich, successful … piercingly lonely.

And Rita, little Rita, needed affection and acceptance. In the same greens, but served with love, not at all in meat with blood (as if, with her blood, the blood of Rita), served to the table in aggression.

Aggression and money. Stiffness, severity, pain. All this is connected in one tangle with Rita. This is the image of Mom. If you have money from your mother, you must be…. A sacrifice. Like this.

And what can you, Rita, in these circumstances? You can only despise your tormentors. A tormentor, a mother, and along with her, the resource that seems to give her the right to spite, torment, and scold you. Yelling in your face that you are "nobody and no way to call you."

The mental connection, or rather, Rita's attitude that money provides her with the “title” of the victim, was entrenched in her marriage. In an early marriage in her incomplete 18 years. Escape from tyranny. From the "boHatstvo". All this "expensive-rich" in the teeth is imposed and stuck already in the liver! Together with the mother beast.

The husband's family is secured. And young Margot lives almost in the servants, because there is a mother-in-law, sister-in-law, everything is almost as in the ancient home building. And this security does not make her happy, especially since Rita has become accustomed to her since childhood. Only the face of the "tyrant" has changed, who delivers the blessings that are again across her larynx.

But when the "miracle" happened, and the young separated from their parents, Freedom came! But … no money. More precisely, the husband is working as he earned, everything is in order with him. And Margarita's daughters "fledged", entered the correspondence course, pushing the full-time budgetary course, and immediately after school went to income, more than that of mom-dad combined. We created a business, and now they are almost ready to accept my mother as a secretary.

For the daughters, it happened like that for the grandmother - the income came when independence came. Rita's mother, left an orphan early, turned out to be a "Cinderella" in a family of wealthy relatives. And for her, freedom was connected just with money.

Be independent, be proud and self-reliant, because money made her invulnerable.

Yes, outwardly it was so. Lacking internal resources to ensure security, the orphan took an external resource in the form of money, and her vulnerability, carefully hidden behind a solid fence of high income, broke through with aggression towards her daughter.

All her pain for the dead parents, for the years of being a Cinderella, for fears and suffering, all this pain broke through to the scoundrel daughter, who did not pray to the "golden calf" as the Liberator of the victim, who in the past was sitting on a heap of ash, together with her, with her mother already suffered enough.

For Rita, everything was the same: aggression = mom = money. Refusing her mother's aggression, the girl refused both her mother and money. An example of a logical error is to tie different aspects of life into one tangle. There are many such examples: "happiness is getting married", "children are the meaning of life", "life is not the same without a cat."

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Has Margarita “forgiven” her mother? So, as psychologists advise? She "forgave" her for many years, because it is "right". To no avail, as you yourself understand (those who “forgave” under duress).

On the dive, Rita touched that pain of the girl's mother, and understood where her mother's aggressiveness came from. It seemed as if there was no one to forgive, especially since my mother survived as best she could, and, most likely, was younger than the current Rita in the described times. The little girl is a wolf. This is Rita's mom. An orphan girl, a wolf cub, surviving in conditions not for children.

By the grace of the “money-sacrifice” mental link, already in adulthood, Margarita now and then caught herself trying to fall into this sacrificial state, apparently subconsciously hoping to attract income.

Now there is an understanding, more precisely, knowledge at the level of emotions, subconsciousness, that:

1. The victim is not entitled to money by simple definition.
2. Money is an imaginary resource that provides invulnerability and freedom.
3. A true resource is mutual love and support (do not have a hundred rubles, but have a hundred friends … or a mother).
4. Mom loves Rita so much that only in front of her does she show vulnerability, albeit with the flip side (aggression).
5. As soon as Rita stopped rejecting her mother, her mother stopped "showing her character."
6. Children are wiser than their parents.
7. Mom protected Rita from the worst in her, mom's, understanding.

There are often tips online, both about “forgiving” your parents, and about gaining respect for money, so that they can live.

You can pray long and hard to the idol of the golden calf, buying luxurious wallets and performing various rituals to attract money. But if money is "energy", as those who describe monetary secrets write, first you need to understand that "money" means exactly to you.

Perhaps the very taste and smell of this money is colored for you with the same contempt that Margarita had for money? And do you have the same deep unconscious understanding that for money you need to get into a subordinate and vulnerable position? Or there are other attitudes that paint money in a certain "color", more precisely, giving them their own sacred meaning.

Tarot cards describe the facets of reality. Someone will understand the metaphorical digression more clearly. There is the Arkan Sun. He can personify "happiness, clarity of consciousness, a favorable outcome." It can mean “money”, among other things, but only for those people who understand the word “money” in this way, as “clarity of consciousness”. Someone sees them, money, on the "Devil" card, as "evil, debauchery and obsession."

For the first people "money" is a pleasant companion in life, and for the second it is something from which to run. Love and hate. Duality. And, if you remember, the "devil" is "separation", "dissociation". "Love and hate. I want and reject. I do rituals about money, and I don't let them in."

Do you want to understand "what the devil" you have no money? To understand and eliminate the causes, I offer hypnosis techniques.

Analysis (understanding the reasons) is already half the battle, as we are taught. In psychoanalysis, this will take a year. Whereas in immersion - only 20 minutes of the session, and the rest of the time - to remove those very "blocks" and learn new strategies of behavior.

One should work not with the mind, but with the subconscious. And here you cannot do without a guide.

Your guide Irina Panina

Together we will find the way to your hidden possibilities!