So That Dreams Don't Drive You Crazy

2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43

Dreams are ideas floating in our heads that drive us crazy until we make them a reality. Dreams are abstract ideas about where and what we want to be in two, ten, twenty years.

Of course, dreaming is not difficult, it is difficult to realize. To make any dream come true, you need a carefully thought-out plan and the desire to earn it (!) Yes, usually dreams are earned, not fulfilled and very rarely achieved by pure luck.

The path to making a dream come true consists of several steps that almost every dreamer can do. These steps are not measured in meters, but in time, quantity and quality of energy that you spent. It can be not only your energy, but also the energy of people whom you were able to ignite with your idea.

Step 1.

Dream. Give yourself freedom!

It all starts in the mind and heart. Each person, somewhere inside his essence, has his own secret world and often not one. All people have these worlds, absolutely everyone. No matter how serious or boring people may seem from the outside, there are unimaginable, magnificent, amazing, stupid, beautiful worlds inside them. Not just one world. Hundreds of worlds. Thousands maybe. Some people know about their worlds and try to manifest them, and some do not even guess. But if the secret worlds are not shown outside, then this can become the reasons for severe insomnia, eternal dissatisfaction with life, exhausting haste, depression or a desire to die.

Few people know how to understand and manifest the secret worlds. Unfortunately, this is not taught at school, but you can learn even in adulthood: when you feel that something is wrong with you, slow down and listen. Try to hear the messages of your secret worlds. You will definitely hear them. They will speak to you in the language of their dreams.

State the dream clearly in three to five words. Do not overdo it. Just say it, even if you only say it in your head. This is the starting point.

Step 2.

Believe it! May your dreams be greater than your fears!

Listen to how your body feels when you say your dream. Fearfully? Feeling fear is not always fear. More often than not, people confuse fear and excitement. Listen, maybe it's a lot of energy pounding in your chest, trying to get out. Think of yourself standing on a treadmill at a low start. It's good when there is a strong sensual response to a dream - this is a marker that you are on the right track.

Yes, your dream must be big. It must be something that is seemingly beyond your reach. But it also needs to be believable. Believe in your dream. The old saying “everyone receives according to his faith” is very true. Believing in a dream is essential to get the energy and motivation you need to achieve it. Your dreams are like children. If you trust and support your child, he will flourish with his best and most powerful talents. Also with dreams. Your heart knows the truth. If this dream has chosen you, surrender to it and make it happen. If you don't, then someone else will implement it.

Doubt? Go to your dreams with those who will help open the energy of creation in you - "God appears where there are two." Find someone you trust to help you deal with your thoughts and feelings. You should not do this with unfamiliar people or those who would devalue and criticize your dream. Often people do this unconsciously or out of envy. After all, if you do it, and they are not able - how can they support you? Or how they will support you if the realization of your dream will force them to change too, to leave their usual comfort zone, even if this place is unpleasant.

Step 3.

Visualize!

Visualize your dream. Can you imagine in detail what the world will look like when your dream comes true? Visualizing your dreams will energize you because you will be able to see how the world is changing, how you are changing. The rise of energy, excitement to tears or vibration in the body are indicators that you are on the right track.

Great future managers have a habit. They "see" things. They picture themselves walking through their $ 50 million office, even as they sit in a folding chair at their headquarters in the garage. Andrei Konchalovsky, starting to create his new masterpiece, sees the last scene of the film.

Step 4.

Tell the world about your dream!

One of the reasons many dreams never come true is because the dreamer does it all for himself. It is a quiet dream that lives only within his mind. Anyone who wants to achieve his dream must tell many people about his dream.

This is one of the reasons why we should do it: when we say it all the time, we begin to believe in our dream more and more. Another reason: declaring our dream to the world holds us accountable. When we talked to others, it encourages us to do it so as not to look stupid.

Step 5.

Plan!

A well-written plan, born of soul and body, is 50% of the success of realizing a dream.

When we talk about goal setting, it's important to consider the difference between long-term goals and pipe dreams ahead of time. There are people with tons of ideas (and I'm sure you know them) who talk endlessly about the possibilities and potential results, but rarely get anywhere. This is a superhero on the couch, or an annoying friend who plays video games all day, or a whining neighbor who plays the eternal record "Now, if I were born ten years later, I would …", "Now, if I had guessed to buy an apartment then, then…". The reality is that achieving goals requires a plan and hard work. And know, setting goals that you can achieve is much more important than the work itself. A pipe dream is a fantasy and a goal is achievable.

Therefore, every dream must take the form of a plan. Your dream won't come true so easily. You need to sit down and plan your strategy to achieve your dream.

Think about all the details. Break your entire plan down into small goals. And goals are for tasks. Then set a time frame for each task in your dream plan.

Step 6.

Work!

Remember, dreams are usually earned, not fulfilled, and very rarely achieved by sheer luck. Unfortunately, successful people are the most responsible workers. While the rest of the world sits on their couches, passionately watching the events unfold in someone's TV series, successful people work as Creators towards their goals - the embodiment of their dreams. There is a certain pattern captured in the numbers: to become a high-level professional, you need to gain 10,000 hours of experience in your field. Cities are not built overnight.

Here's a formula for what the road looks like from conceiving an idea to its implementation: short-term tasks multiplied by time are equal to your long-term achievements. If you work on it every day, you will eventually achieve your dream.

And if, in the process of working on an idea, you start to feel drawn to watch the series or are covered with various unpleasant feelings, for example, melancholy, then you should ask yourself one more question: "Is this my dream?"

And remember one simple truth: "The real Creator is a doer, not just a thinker."

Step 7.

Enjoy not only the result, but also the process!

After all, the process of achieving a goal in terms of duration takes much longer than the very feeling of a fulfilled result. Sometimes it is months, years, or tens of years. That's life. Your life. Reward yourself. Be kind and generous.