2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43
Well, firstly, this problem is urgent, because in our society there are really few earning opportunities for women. There is the illusion of independence and the illusion of important work, but in fact, behind the material achievements of women are men (fathers, husbands, lovers). And who is behind the success of men? And should anyone be standing there at all?
For ambitious men, purposeful, strong leaders, your motivation is a breeze. They have their own ideas on how to live. And you will only be allowed to join them, silently in a rag, and then, if you like it and agree to set off the brilliance of such a leader. In the depths of their souls, weak-willed men would also like to live cool, decide something and have everyone and everything, but somehow they are lazy. And you, with your motivation, just reach out, rape and nag him.
Your motivation is essentially what you need. But there are such ladies who have the ability to effectively influence the male psyche, or learn this at the same trainings. And he begins to implement the program of turning his man into a successful leader. And.. runs the risk of falling into the next trap.
I do not mean anyone in particular, I am starting from our nature. Most men have such a peculiarity of perception and assessment of the world around them, in which, in cases of failures and defeats, the whole world is blamed (everyone is to blame, just not the man himself). Well, the man achieved his successes and victories only thanks to himself beloved. Men don't like to accept help. It humiliates them. Most of the male ego cannot acknowledge your share of the struggle for success. Accordingly, your work is not rewarding, no one will appreciate your efforts. You are told in training what to do and how to use you. Of course, at the early stage of the relationship, when everything is fine in the couple, and the man is seeking a promotion, he is ready to share “YOUR” success with you, and you receive the fruits of achievement in the form of gifts, entertainment, the opportunity to use the supposedly “COMMON” property. BUT! In cases of discord, termination of relations, the man will appropriate all the achievements for himself. Because his contribution is obvious: he went to work, he did not sleep, he fought, etc. And you? Did you create a special energy, comfort, atmosphere? What are these incomprehensible abstract words? What is behind them? This is elusive and inexplicable and NOT PROVABLE! They'll just laugh at you.
Therefore, before rushing to invest strength and inspire your man for exploits, think about what you will receive in return and whether you can restore the spent energy.
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