First Of All, I LOVE MYSELF, And Then Stately Men, Apple Pie And Other Things Necessary For Me To Be Happy

2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43

I am a psychotherapist. Over the years of work, a lot of stories and destinies have accumulated in my "memory chest". I analyze it for the umpteenth time and with all the certainty the conclusion suggests itself - a happy woman FIRST OF ALL LOVES HIMSELF, and through the prism of her love gives her to those around her. There is not an ounce of egoism in this, it is an inner force that carries light from within. Men, real strong, self-sufficient, are drawn to women who know how to enjoy themselves and life. Women who are greedy for impressions, open to the world, carried away by something not everyday and not trivial. Children, while little ones, love their mother simply because she exists, but when the greatest spiritual return from them grows up, it goes to mothers who did not put themselves on the altar of motherhood, but, on the contrary, lived for themselves and bathed their children in an aura of their own happiness.

With such women it is interesting for all husbands, lovers, children and grandchildren. They are appreciated at work. With them there is always something to talk about, they are intellectually developed, thirst for life and love themselves, take care of their body, appearance, dress well, I repeat for themselves, and not for others. Even being alone with themselves, they do not stare at the TV, but, for example, read, listen to music, study something, or even just dream. At the same time, having put themselves in order in the morning, they do everything beautifully, even set the table for tea drinking for their beloved.

There is a paradox in this way of life, a self-sufficient woman does not nag anyone, accepts people as they are and most importantly chooses who to be with her and who is superfluous.

Self-love is the core of life, on which what you need for happiness is automatically strung. Even everyday household chores should be exclusively for yourself, and not for guests and household members, who, however, next to such a woman join in the work, or even do everything themselves, simply because, as they say, the goddess did not come into your life for this …

This lifestyle does not require material well-being, since gymnastics can be done at home, and not in a fitness club. Cosmetics made from natural ingredients are affordable for anyone. Facial massage, find a scheme, read the instructions and go. You can also afford to dress well, the main thing is with taste and in things that fit well. Of course, you need to keep your appetite in check and not allow yourself to build up Rubens' beauty on your hips. This is in the same piggy bank "for myself", because after menopause, excess weight will give the girl a full sick, destructive, fast old age. Hypertension, diabetes mellitus and osteoporosis are the best friends of women who do not love themselves after 50 years.

But as a rule, women full of despondency and self-pity come to me for consultation. We start to work and it turns out what to do for ourselves, what is banal laziness.

You can start loving yourself at any age, the main thing is to want it with all your heart. In my groups with women, real internal transformations take place, but many, realizing and accepting themselves renewed, unfortunately return to their usual way of life after 2-3 months.

Laziness conquers LOVE! Put the comma yourself.