2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43
Usually infantile ladies dream of a fairy-tale prince. Here, they say, a handsome man on a white horse will come, pick me up, save me from all worries and worries: "Do not worry, dear. Do not worry about money, nor about housing, nor about a conflict with the boss. I will decide everything" - and take me to your beautiful kingdom - to rule. But there are enough men who dream of a savior. "I wish I could meet the one who will change my life," a drunken witness said recently at a wedding. The witness would classically fall headfirst into a plate and sigh there, snorting off the parsley.
Guys, it seems to me, even more often endow women with mythical superpowers. More often they shift the responsibility for their male destiny onto them. Is he drinking? The wife is to blame, she did not find an approach to the man. Changes? It is also clear why. Lost weight - does not feed. Got fat - does not walk. Lying on the couch for the third year in depression, does not want to get a job? Well, excuse me, it means that the girl could not inspire him. The damned women are to blame for everything. And what about the man? He is a weak-willed, dependent creature, not responsible for his sins: "My wife … gave me from a tree, and I ate."
And such an unfortunate person, instead of dealing with his personal problems, begins to dream about another companion, about a real fairy who will magically change his life immediately.
Sometimes he even finds such a fairy and then whispers to her with conviction: "You are my ray of light in the dark kingdom. It's a miracle that I met you on New Year's Eve. Now everything will be different." But by next December, lying on the same couch, he understands: not a fig. Wrong again. Again melancholy.
Maybe that's why Russia is ahead of the rest of the world in terms of the number of divorces of marriages? “She turned out to be the wrong one,” a citizen who was in the process of divorce explained to me. “I thought she was the only one. And after two pregnancies I found out - no.”
“Two years ago, when he fell in love with Nadezhda Fyodorovna, it seemed to him that if he just got together with Nadezhda Fyodorovna and left with her to the Caucasus, he would be saved from the vulgarity and emptiness of life; only to abandon Nadezhda Fyodorovna and leave for Petersburg, he will receive everything he needs. " Anton Pavlovich Chekhov. "Duel".
But there are other men as well. These do not rush all their lives, changing one girlfriend for another, hoping that some one will finally turn them into happy, calm, self-sufficient people. They live like in that joke:
- Moishe, are you and your Basya happy?
- And where to go?
Such men understand that the only one who can change their lives is themselves. And that divorce is not an option. “If I chose, then that's it,” says my rural relative. “My army has waited for me, the wedding was played. So, fate. So, forever.
Where to get divorced, disgrace? And what more! He and his wife are now spinning sausages in their village. And a year ago they did it. And twenty. They are preparing for the New Year. In which there will be no visiting princes and fairies. Everything will be simple, no fancy.
As usual: a table, a Christmas tree, children, parents are nearby. The usual quiet happiness of a family. Miracle.
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