2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43
"… you'd better tell me why there are no dreams at all"
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They are. They cannot but be. It is simply impossible to live without a dream.
At first, when you are little, you fantasize. Then your fantasies are transformed into dreams. If everything goes well, dreams become goals: you plan, set tasks, gradually solve them. When faced with obstacles, you think about how to get around or defeat them. You go further. At the same time, you can work on several tasks that will ultimately lead to the goal of your whole life.
This is approximately how about three to five percent of the world's population lives. Therefore, do not be very upset that you do not have a dream. True, it is somehow disgusting to realize yourself as an average ordinary person …
If this fact does not bother you and you do not intend to conquer the top of the world, live and do not worry. Enjoy what you have. It is possible that your dream has already come true. Improve your present. Rejoice at the opportunity to comfortably enter the future. And know, about 78 percent of people live like this. They rejoice, feel sad, swear, fight for justice, get sick, go to the sea every summer, every weekend to the country … They invest their experience in the children, and the children, modernizing according to the time, pass it on to their grandchildren … Sometimes they feel unhappy, sometimes happiness overwhelms them … Normal human life.
But if you increasingly think that you live without dreams and ambitions, then this is the place for you
There are dreams. Only you don't see them. You have hidden your aspirations somewhere far and deep. What for? It's not always the same. So that the nerves do not act with their impracticability. So as not to feel like the last loser because you cannot achieve what you want. And someone, out of fear, stopped dreaming. Most often, this has been going on since childhood, when you told your closest people about your dreams, and they laughed at you or scolded you - it’s not about your honor to think about this. Or you have already tried to implement them, but each time you failed and burned. Or you buried them alive because you didn't believe it was possible.
It happens quite the opposite. When from childhood you have your own wishmaker. Just think, and then bam - here it is, a dream on a platter. You realize that everything can be achieved with a snap of your fingers. So why dream? If in such a situation you suddenly wondered why you are not dreaming about this, then all is not lost, and the patient will live.
If you don't have a dream, but really want it, then you need to come up with it
First, remember what you fantasized about as a child, when you were still pure and direct, and not poisoned by the vicissitudes of adulthood.
What did you like to do the most? What games did you play? What did you draw? What books have you read? What was capturing you with your head? If you find it difficult, find someone to help refresh your memories.
Write down everything you remember.
Rank your dreams.
Feel every point.
Listen to yourself.
What do you feel?
I'm sure tears can come to your most cherished dream
Take action. Sign up for driving courses, dancing, fitness club, swimming, find a drawing studio …
Set yourself easy tasks at first, gradually complicating them. Achieving your goals will inspire you and lead you forward with your dreams.
But if after such a titanic work nothing happened, do not be upset and do not look for the truth in wine. It so happens that you need a period of aimless life in order to rest, enjoy life itself, rethink it, be glad that you are alive, healthy, with memory, and all you lack is a dream.
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