2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43
Anger as a metaphor for unlived happiness
Anger as a metaphor for happiness that has not been experienced, noticed, allowed or allowed into consciousness. Now, at this stage of my life, I want to consider anger in this way, in this form it is unusually resourceful for me and as a kind of predecessor of happiness. One has only to turn the toggle switch, and the energy will flow in the other direction, and the bulbs will light up in dark places, and the multi-colored garland will make you smile.
Anger is a powerful energy impulse of a bursting libido, so powerful that it carries people around us for years to come, and clears the way for us from new acquaintances and joys, demolishing everything in its path. Although, in a consciousness captured by a complex, anger can be a source of joy, but that is another story. The suppression of this rushing stream makes us more tolerant and more social and at the same time completely deprives us of our vital energy.
I am angry because I am deprived of something that I really want. Is it possible to get everything you want? Obviously not, but our sane reasoning is completely invisible to unconscious impulses. And as I can guess, this is something that we so desperately desire, this is happiness. Yes, this is now going to be a very general term, but nevertheless, this is what we ultimately want. And at that moment when happiness was already so close, and when I was already thinking about how I would enjoy it, there is always a reverse, and in a moment I find myself with nothing, but nothing can stop the flow of the libido river, and … … I begin to act according to the natural plan B given to me from birth, I fall into anger and get angry.
Interestingly, almost none of the angry people think about how to make sure that Plan B does not start at least as often as it is launched. As life shows, screwing the switch with tape and fixing it only in the "happiness" position always ends with the knob flying off along with the fixing one and plan B becomes an integral part of the life of an inexperienced engineer.
Anger is strength, and strength, as you know, requires intelligence, in our case, self-knowledge. To be strong is cool, and to be strong and smart is even cooler, then, perhaps, no one will suffer from our strength, including ourselves. And then I start thinking and imagining how I can handle this frantic energy with care and how I can be able to smoothly flip a switch. And I want to be happy as often as possible and as rarely angry as possible, and I really want to feel in myself this golden mean of the transition of anger into happiness, and I strive to be more careful with the shock wave of the explosion that covers the people around me.
For myself, now I see an opportunity, going into a state of anger and anger, to suspend myself a little and examine my state and look for the point at which I decided that I was unhappy. If I can reliably detect it for myself, I can investigate it for the cause of the failure. Is it true what I perceived to be the truth? Am I really wanting it and am I suffering from a lack? Is it my happiness that I am so angry about the inability to get it? Why am I dependent on other people for my desire?
Yes, it is true that this is just the beginning of a difficult and long way to happiness. And this first step is, perhaps, the most difficult, or maybe it is not the first, but the last.
The road will be mastered by the walking one.
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