2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43
Love…. A feeling that inspires many people to do things that are said to be "insane." A feeling that adds energy, creativity, generating new ideas and bringing them to life. There is not a single person who has not experienced this simultaneously beautiful, bright and painful, tormenting feeling!
You can, of course, be indignant at the expense of the "agonizingly tormenting" one, but you must admit that when you expect a meeting with a dear and beloved person, there are not only anticipating feelings of joy, anger and indignation are added to them that it is necessary to wait for this minute. And since people are different, then the experiences of this state, I mean Love, are different.
And does everyone come to Love in his own way, or does Love to everyone come in his own way? Let's try to figure it out …
For example, there are people who are waiting for their Love. Some are sitting at home, some at a party, some at work, some in transport, etc. They are united by a common trait of passivity and refusal of responsibility for the beginning of a relationship (the only place where they are responsible is for this option of entering into a relationship and then, without particularly realizing it).
And now Love happens to them! Oh, how romantic and beautiful everything is, and the most important thing is safe for the one who waited for "love", because he / she is not the initiator of the relationship and all responsibility for their quality rests with the partner. How he will love to be under the watchful eye of criticism and periodic discontent all the time, with a generous permission to "love" himself, moving into the position of the one who gives love.
There are those who cause "love" and it is pleasant up to a certain point, and when you have already "gorged", you want to "digest" to assimilate the experience, you continue to "feed". You report that you do not want such "love" at this moment they have time to take offense at you and may well wonder what is wrong?
Well, back to those who are looking for Love, but in this description I have already found …
So the burden of responsibility falls on him for this wonderful relationship that he wished for, and now he needs to cope with it. And to cope with this "love", which he so longed for and found, is difficult.
It looks as if he is alone in this relationship and only he needs "love", since the other broadcasts that he needed to get to know him when he sat quietly and did not touch anyone. And then the motto may appear: "you need you and try" or "surprise me" and much more.
And in this place, the one who found "love" decides that this is not what he wanted and leaves. The one who expected "love" thinks that he has not yet waited, this is not the one who can bestow "love" and who will appreciate this gift on his part. There are also such options when relationships add up like puzzles: one complements the other.
For example, the one who was passive at the beginning of the relationship made it possible to accommodate the activity of another, in the organization of leisure, in the future living together and creating a family. Passive in this place is also active, creating coziness, warmth, comfort and safety. And in this action, these two people become Givers of Love to each other.
Each of us at certain moments of our life is in one of these positions, it is important to notice and change them in time. And the relationship does not lie in these three options. Someone is closer to one of them and he / she often uses it. Since it is safe, this is a well-known area in which a person is easily navigated and tempted by this.
When he matures for something new in his life, in his relationships, he experiences the fear of change, then what is not known until that moment will appear, but what it will decide for him.
An important question is: what does everyone get in this situation, how is it possible to create it and for what? It is clear that not everyone deals with relationships in this way.
If it were, there would be no families. What I have stated here is not true, each has its own truth, and this is my vision of such a property as Love proceeding from these three points of its possible manifestation.
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