Gestalt Fairy Tale As A Boy The Whole World Should Have

2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43

Mom and Dad have a baby. And they decided that it would be correct and maybe even perfect. The world is happy, and it is possible to show the neighbors, and so that he lives as they come up with and is comfortable for them and so that there is no shame. It was difficult at first. The child is not the same as invented happened, you have to sleep - he screams, gets dirty diapers and even smiled not to all the neighbors. And they began to make it right, like mom and dad and beautiful and even slightly ideal, so that he could eat beautifully, sleep sweetly, be silent and not distract from life. And it was almost an ideal fairy tale, and then suddenly a boy (or a girl - here it depends on the choice of a fairy tale) suddenly began not to coincide, and even about my own I want! speak. The parents became sad, they will think of going for a walk, but the boy wants to sleep, they will think of feeding, but the boy does not want healthy food, and there are many such stories.

How to be? How to make a boy perfect? And then my mother felt sad, grabbed herself by the heart because it hurt her that the boy showed some “I want” and not the same as hers and dad's. The boy got scared and then dad also shouted:

- Look to what you brought my mother! Almost died from your "Want"!

And so many times it happened and the boy realized that he himself cannot want and show feelings and even cry. After all, if you want something yourself, then mom almost dies, and dad smells like drops of heart. At first it was difficult for the boy, he is alive - his "want" often came. And then, nothing, I got used to it. I put my desires and feelings in a box. He hid the box far, far away.

The boy sat down on the sofa. Hands on your knees. And he waits as mom and dad will delight him, feed him and say what and how to do. It’s even easier, you don’t need to think. You sit and wait and then rrraz and food, or they took them for a walk or to school. At school, at first it was difficult - "I want" and "I do not want" appeared, but then my mother began to come and decide for him. And again, just sit and wait - beauty! Only one thing was uncomfortable, the box with desires was still heavy.

Once the box cracked - the boy really wanted a dog. So much so that he even brought her to the apartment with her dad and mom. The dog was cheerful, lively - it gallops around the apartment, it smells like a dog.

Here my mother felt very bad, drops of heart are poured everywhere. Mom lies and only moans bitterly and caringly: - You can't cope with the dog, you’re still a fool! Well, where do you think yourself? Why did you decide without mom-dad?

And dad does not lag behind: - Where do you decide at fifteen for yourself? Idiot still completely!

They took the dog to the village on a chain. And the boy put the dream of a dog in a box. Together with tears for the dog. And again he sat down on the sofa to wait. And to the questions he wanted, he began to answer:

- My beloved dad and mom will tell me. Where can I decide.

The parents were very happy that the boy had grown up to be correct and ideal, the neighbors to envy, to be proud of themselves. They chose a university for the boy and took him and showed him the way.

Once or twice while studying at the University "I want" they came again. The boy wanted friends-girlfriends. But he didn't know how to be friends. I became sad, so I even began to eat less. And then my mother came up with a way out. Speaks:

- Why do you need these stupid people? Will they really help you dig potatoes in the country? And in general, they are strangers. They owe you and do nothing to you. The world owes you and they should and do not, only papa-mama do. Your best friends are your dad and mom.

The boy thought and thought and sat down on the sofa. Wait for the world to give him work and all that stuff.

At this time, dad and mom ran, asked, thought and found a job for the boy. And they took the boy, although he did not know how and what to do there. At work, people were not very happy with the boy, but they gave him an understandable job and he began to twist the nuts for a lot of money.

Maybe not nuts, boxes, but this is a fairy tale. There are miracles in a fairy tale.

That's just the trouble came. We closed this job. And mom-dad at this time already became old. They have lost friends, they cannot help, they don’t even dig potatoes in the fall. A boy came, sat down on the sofa and sits. Time passes and nothing happens. Who's guilty? The boy thought that the wicked world was to blame. After all, he is good, mom and dad are also good. A boy sits and is sad and silent. After all, he can't cry either, so that his mother misses her heart.

This tale has two endings. In one, the boy got up from the couch and went to psychotherapy. Together with the therapist, the boy dug up his box with "I Want", where desires and feelings were. He was very sad and happy when he took apart a full box. Some "want" were old and rumpled, and some just right! The boy came up with what he wants to do, what gives him joy, and for this he even began to receive money. Because when he realized what he really wanted and what made him happy, it became so easy for him. And he became a brilliant hairdresser, or a car repairman, or wrote poetry. After all, when the work is done with pleasure, it is beautiful and joyful!

And there is also an alternative ending. The boy was sitting on the sofa, sitting, even covered with dust. And he was angry with the whole world. And then he died in due time. And the box with "I Want" was buried.

Choose the ending to your liking.

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