2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43
Everything in the world has its beginning, its development, culmination and-and-and end (or rebirth) … First of all, these phases are present in life itself: we are born, develop, evolve, reach maturity and grow old, completing our stories … These the same phases are naturally present in social relations, opening, developing and completing human contacts. And if, along with general education schools, there were spiritual and psychological, this material would be realized by us deeper …
What would it give?
1. A more responsible approach to life … Do you agree?
When you remember the finiteness of existence, you value and value it especially.
2. Awareness of living
Given the pitfalls of the emotional development of relationships, you do not let the processes take their course.
3. Philosophical acceptance of difficulties
Respect for the living given: not everything even depends on a conscious approach - we are all in the hands of Destiny (God) - strengthens the position of the Inner Adult (Sage) in us, teaching us to adequately accept events beyond our control - including parting and loss.
And something else very, very important!
4. Taking into account the best prospects
Observing the development of any process, we know the following about their dynamics: ending in one coordinate system, the processes move into another. Remember the law of conservation of energy? I remember!
Energy does not disappear and does not appear again, it only passes from one state to another.
It works in the psychological field - too! Completing one natural stage, the processes, transforming, pass into another - and not necessarily with new players, the main thing is in new qualities. This is, in fact, about the endless evolution of valuable human relationships! Love and friendship at the end of acute phases does not have to be "buried": having said goodbye at one level, we can move on to the next, provided that the participants are interested, ready and wealthy.
And this is very optimistic! Do you agree?
I will conclude the publication with a famous quote from my favorite philosopher - the deepest Richard Bach: "What the caterpillar calls the end of the world, the Master will call a butterfly."
I will paraphrase in my own way: where there is evolution, there is no end)
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