2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43
I was looking for tender and warm love, but I found a drama full of pain, despair and loneliness. A drama that lifted to heaven and plunged into living hell.
So it seemed to me until I realized that I was creating it myself.
I have deduced several conditions for a guaranteed good quality drama:
1. Never speak directly about what you do not like, hurt, unpleasant. Based on the belief that this can alienate the person and he will leave.
📍He must realize everything himself and will no longer act / speak / think / choose that way.
📌If not, then dislike.
2. Never ask for help, support, sympathy. And it's even better not to make any requests / desires at all, so as not to strain the person with yourself and not force him to do something. 📍He must understand and want himself. (You can give light hints - be silent and sigh loudly, cry softly next to him, answer "everything is fine" …)
📌If not, then dislike.
3. Do not call first, do not take the initiative, so as not to impose, do not burden yourself.
📍He must call / come / approach himself as much and when you need it.
📌If not, then dislike.
4. Give their meanings to words, behavior, deeds. It is desirable to see in them a lack of feelings, interest, your personal significance and value. Never ask or clarify.
📍He must understand himself, apologize, correct, prove otherwise.
📌If not, then dislike.
5. Do not approach first, do not show tenderness, only in response! Not showing neediness, so as not to experience humiliation in the event of rejection.
📍He must intuitively understand how and what you want. Always be ready to give it to you.
📌If not, then dislike.
6. Do not be angry openly, but silently take offense. Notice signs of disrespect and indifference in everything. Devalue everything and end the relationship.
📍He must return you, prove the strength of his feelings, the significance of your relationship for him, your value.
📌If you agree to a break - dislike.
8. Accumulate resentment and dissatisfaction, disappointment in the imperfection of the partner. Threatening the end of the relationship and ending it.
📍After blaming that you hurt another, doubting whether you did the right thing, justifying your partner in everything. Regret. To suffer. Grieving about your unhappy fate and loneliness.
Renew the relationship.
📌And there is dislike again.
9. To seek love, care, warm relationship. Get it. Notice that your partner has chosen to go to the bathroom instead of making you tea.
📍Everything. To break relations. To suffer. Resume. Rejoice. To suffer. Break again. To suffer. Return everything.
📌Are you tired of your partner? I told you - dislike!
You can also meet an emotionally unavailable, closed person or choose someone who does not choose you, married, on another continent of the earth, etc.
Fall in love with him to unconsciousness, experience puppy delight and incredible excitement-attraction. Understand that this is your ideal and a chance for eternal happiness.
And then every time to smithereens about LOVE.
Dislike is the most important condition for drama.
It will be more difficult to suffer without it.
If you suddenly notice and believe that you are loved, that you are valuable in yourself, that you are significant and important to someone - the drama will fly to hell!
Be vigilant, do not let them drag you into a calm measured serial romance with a happy ending!
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