Marry Mom?

2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43

Boys looking for wives like mom? Yes. We will not argue with this.

Girls are looking for husbands like dad. Rave. The girls are looking for husbands like their mothers. Someone who will understand them better than themselves, guess their moods and desires, take care, stroke the back and bring warm drink to bed. Someone who will protect them from the outside world will calm them down with the right words. And in general, he will be gentle and will speak a lot of correct words. Someone who will tell you which dress does not make her look fat and which shoes are more suitable for him. Someone who will guess what to give her for the holiday, and will not ask stupid questions or offer money. Someone who will love her girlfriends and adore her mom. Someone who will spend all evenings with her and have similar interests. Who would dream of spending the weekend only with the whole family and not being distracted by stupid men's games. Proceed? And which of the following is added to the portrait of a real man?

Yes, the sadness is that dad was not here and there. If he was in reality and looked like a man in his usual classical sense, then you were even less lucky. The more perfect your dad was, the harder it is for you to find a good husband. The majority will lose to a perfect man who was the first to kiss your hands, feet and, sorry, ass.

But dads with pronounced alpha male behavior are extremely rare these days. Usually they are snapped up and have more than one family and a bunch of offspring. And although they love their daughters more, since sons are competitors to them, their love has a long list of expectations. And by completing them, you become their hostage. After all, finding a man who needs the same from you, and who will also "unconditionally" love you, is not easy. But there are such cases. Usually these women adhere to a passive female role and are happy in marriage, be sure to give birth to at least one boy, who will be named, guess after whom?

Time has made some adjustments to this mechanism. Such dads "men-men" more and more like women unlike quiet housewives. They are now more and more like active and successful, a little aggressive bitches. In real life, such a woman is most often the mistress that everyone usually knows about. And it is difficult for a little girl to deceive which women her dad likes and whom she should be like. Guess which man is right for her husband?

But most women grew up either with a weak father, or in the absence of one. The mother, driven by the need to provide a decent living and the fulfillment of the duties of both parties, could not fully give what the child expects from the mother. And unsatisfied desires do not disappear and do not dissolve.

Here, the girl grows up, and continues to search for a partner who will make up for the lack. Only the fact that he is not a mother does not occur to her. And she endows a man with these qualities, or rather his image, sincerely not understanding why he cannot cope with this. Then she calls him callous and cold, and gets confused about what qualities her chosen one should have.

Should he be courageous or caring?

In the first case, care is expressed in actions, this is a masculine way, and in the second - all those listed at the beginning of the article. Confused in the testimony, a normal woman will do only one thing - she will accuse you of not wanting to understand her and will cry. Deep down, she will hope that her partner will find the answer on their own and help her unravel, he's smart. At this moment, she picks up an invisible shovel and begins to dig a real hole in her relationship.

Now take a closer look at your partner, don't you recognize anyone? …