What We Regret

Video: What We Regret

Video: What We Regret
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What We Regret
What We Regret
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Each of us has situations in life that we regret. If it was possible to go back in time, we would not have done that.

Yes, today we would not do that! May be. And at that moment we made a different decision.

What are we sorry about? About some act that actually became an experience for us. Is it possible to live life without making mistakes? And what are our mistakes? What would we be like today without them?

Our life is a collection of small and large actions. We make different decisions, and the consequences after them can be both ups and downs, both success and disappointment.

It so happens that we are warned about something. For example, as a child, I played tag on tennis tables, of which only an iron frame remained. It was very amazing to keep balance and play at the same time. My dad warned me that I might fall. And since I had been running there for two days already, I did not believe it. At that time, I had a personal experience. Dad didn't run with us. He did not know that no one had fallen yet))))) And I fell. Got a new experience, painful, there was a wound that was stitched. Trust in the world has grown: I can listen to what others have to say.

In cases when warned, there are different situations. What does not work for one person can have a very good result for another. It all depends on the circumstances and characteristics of people's lives.

One way or another, any of our steps, decisions, actions, have at least 2 input data:

  1. Our desire, interest, curiosity.
  2. Circumstances, conditions, certain knowledge and experience.

It was at that moment that everything turned out so that we made a choice in favor of what we regret now. This was our desire and inner motives. We really needed just such an action, and not something else. Then, in our life, a situation was created that we decided to commit such an act.

Practice on this topic

  1. Go back in your mind. Remember all the conditions in which you found yourself before you did something. Think of yourself at that moment. Think if you could have done it differently. If so, what motivated you to do things differently. Ask yourself the following questions: what important and valuable did you get from this experience, what conclusions did you draw; How does the act of regret help you in the present?
  2. Take a piece of paper and write yourself a letter: “dear / oh…, I forgive you for…. At that moment, you acted as required by the situation. Then you have chosen the best option. Your solution suited those circumstances. I thank you for the experience. I love you". You can also say this by placing your hands in your chest area.

Personally, I believe that what we most regret develops us. Makes you wiser, more experienced. We should learn to forgive ourselves for the pain we have done to others, for the wrong choices, for mistakes and blunders. Forgiving yourself means forgiving others. As long as we carry these regrets, we notice the oversights of others towards us. But they, just like we did things regarding our own desires and circumstances.

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