2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43
… for whoever has, to him it will be given and he will increase,
and whoever does not have, from him will be taken away what he has …"
- Bible
There are people - the inhabitants of the Abundant universes, and people - the inhabitants of the Poor worlds.
People of poor worlds / not rich /, they sincerely cannot be grateful for what is given to them anyway, because they think that "there is nothing for that."
In fact, they quickly, through their inattention, skip / miss any benefits that the world and people generously send them.
They do not have enough attention to be in the moment, as the fear inherent in the Poor Worlds interferes with the fear that "further - it will be worse." Many are hindered by the belief that "good cannot last forever" and therefore they want to take maximum from people and circumstances. So they lose / skip the beauty and abundance of the present moment. After all, a person can get something only in the present moment, never in the future. The future, only by becoming the present, can give something, and if there is no habit of being in the present, then the future for poor perception never comes.
The people of the Poor Worlds are hostages to their fears and expectations. They are the ones who sincerely do not distinguish between Acceptance and Patience.
Patience - a deliberate decision to suffer for the sake of secondary benefits.
Acceptance - the state of satisfaction from what is in the Here and Now. (improvements are possible, but what we have is already good.
This is a simple, artless savoring without "show off" and offense, without ambitions and expectations.
But what about desires? If you accept what is, how does one strive for the best? - you ask
Desires also happen from the position of Acceptance, only they sound a little differently: not "I want him to …", but "I want me to …". With Acceptance comes the understanding that each person does the best he is capable of at every moment of his life. And if and what he does not do or does not give, then it cannot, otherwise he would have "given", "loved", "run out", "paid extra" … "added" (for example, parents).
Patience of the peculiarities of a neighbor comes when we do not want and / or cannot understand the true needs of another person. Yes, we may not have enough energy and mental strength or attention. Why? Because there is a lack of something that was not given in childhood. It’s good to find out once that what we were not given in childhood will no longer be given when we have grown up. When we grow up, we can already give ourselves whatever we want. All we have the courage to do is to WANT, and not to think or say that we seem to want it. You can talk and think, but you should do it "with all of you". It is good to distinguish between what to say and what to expect is not the same thing, they are two completely different processes.
Your loved one really does not owe you anything, as in other things, and any other person until he himself wants to do something on a whim. Therefore, every movement in our direction is a Miracle. This is truly a real miracle that might not have happened at all. And then comes instead of Patience / volitional violence against oneself / - volitional letting go and allowing the other to be free. This is probably the secret of Acceptance, the basis of Gratitude
You can think that someone owes something, thereby justifying your expectations from the other. You can beat yourself in the chest to prove that someone "tamed" you and now you are a victim of this attachment. Therefore, He (the culprit of your addiction) owes you now and in the future. Thus, you project your own insufficiency / half-heartedness / incompleteness / mental poverty onto the careless "benefactor" who has turned up at your arm. You can try to pull it into your captive, resource-limited world. To involve someone from another more resourceful universe who simply shared with you their abundance of feelings / emotions / ideas or literally material benefits. He shared what he really had in abundance. And now, he must lose his usual freedoms, exchanging them for happiness to please you further. Alas, this is unlikely to happen. He may want to do it himself, as the urge of his own soul, and then his freedom will not decrease, but increase, spreading to your universe. It is the relationships in which we feel Free and Powerful that are truly valuable.
Allowing our loved ones not to be hostages of the fact that they once made a gesture in our direction is a luxury that not everyone can afford. But this is characteristic of people from abundant universes
It is good to remember that a person's life runs between Good and Very Good. So even if a person says that he is "bad", then I personally think that he is still good in this, only the person is not attentive to this moment of his life.
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