2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43
Yes, men love with their eyes. First of all, his attention is attracted by how you manifest yourself outside. Note - not necessarily appearance - your manifestation. Your grooming, your cleanliness is important, it is important how harmonious your clothes and hairstyle are for you. But the most important thing is your state, how you perceive yourself. Therefore, if you want to look sexy, everything that you are wearing or specially removed should help you create the state of a woman who loves sex..
The second is your behavior next to a man. Often, insecure women, instead of enjoying communication with a man, constantly examine themselves with an inner eye on the subject: do I look good enough? Is this blouse too tight for me? Is my hairstyle normal? and so on. This is a HUGE MISTAKE that needs to be removed from your behavior.
The fact is that a man, even if he notices that the blouse is tightening you more, he simply states this fact, and he will make his opinion about this fact on the basis of your attitude to this fact. That is, due to the fact that he is not an expert in women's things (and there are 98% of them), he will not know how to treat them, and will read this information from your attitude to the blouse. If you are ashamed of your tight blouse, he will immediately think that it is really too tight blouse, if you radiate pleasure from the fact that you are wearing such a tight blouse, he will notice exactly this pleasure (even if the blouse is tight, he will not remember this, he will remember your state in this blouse).
So: all our female things are not for men, but for ourselves, their primary task is to create a certain state for us. It is this state that the man reads. Do you think your long nails are important to him? Yes, if you enjoy it. But if you enjoy short nails, he will be crazy about short nails. It's not that he doesn't notice the difference between long and short nails, but he will give meaning to what you yourself attach importance to. And it is precisely the meaning that you yourself put into the details of your appearance.
Moreover, you may be nervous that you have the wrong hairstyle, and the man will take this displeasure personally and think that you feel tense because of him (because everything in this world is because of him!)
Remember - the desire to look perfect makes a woman insecure. Uncertainty in your appearance is the most obvious and worst thing that you can demonstrate to a man. You can work on improving your physical shape (I do exercises with both hands, I do it myself regularly), but accept the fact that you still won't change it drastically - your breasts will not become 2 sizes larger and your legs will not become longer - take your appearance for granted, as a source, as a form that is specially selected for you in the best way so that you can go through your life lessons. And do not try to be different - otherwise you run the risk of starting to go through the wrong lessons, to attract situations and people that are not intended for you, thereby missing “yours”. Look for someone who is attracted specifically to you, to your shape, who admires just such a cut of the eyes and just such a shape of the little finger.
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