Post-session 16.07

Video: Post-session 16.07

Video: Post-session 16.07
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Post-session 16.07
Post-session 16.07
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Post-session 16.07.

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You have all the answers, others do not know them. You do not need an answer from them, but a correct question that opens the answer in you.

It is incredibly difficult to express compassion for yourself. Although this may ultimately save a person from pain, fear, anger, it is still not an option to do it. We are so arranged that we are looking for the answer from the outside, although it is inside. But if we do not see it inside, then we will not see it outside. Our human nature is such that we bring our inner outward, transfer it to other people, to the world, and try there, with them, to decide something of our own, what's here, inside you. Looks like madness, but that's the way it is. And this is perhaps the only way to see, at least notice, rather, feel, and through your sensation return back to yourself. But, we stop at the transfer stage.

Yes, the child shows his mother to his mother. Yes, he grows up and starts showing his father about his father. Yes, perhaps he will pay attention to himself. Of course, if he makes sure that the parents saw what he showed them about them. Otherwise, the child will forever transmit to blind and stupid parents their personal, not related to the child, pain. Well, joy, do not forget about joy, of course.

The analyst is made of the analyst by the patient and his personal analyst. Well, and, of course, the supervisor, how can you do without him. The most incomprehensible role in this development is the role of patients. We can say that patients show in dynamics the personal psychic analyst in their transference. More precisely, the analyst, in his countertransference, separates his own from the alien. Patients carry a message, both those who come and those who do not. This is a dynamic process. It does not matter if the analysis fails or is successful, it is important to see and feel, to be aware of what is happening now, including in order for it to happen. The transfer of patients to the analyst is a necessary factor for the maturation of the analyst, each his own, each his own, his own. What happens between them is a miniature scene of the entire life of both, in which each has its own role. Oddly enough, but both need it, without each other they will not be able to find what they want. Sometimes patients say something that literally opens the analyst's eyes to himself, and this is an invaluable gift from the patient. But by making this gift to the analyst, the patient sends a message to the future for himself, so that later, after some time, he will receive what the analyst became after this gift, his (the analyst's) individuation, which the patient needs to discover his own individuation. I think that it does not matter who is the first to give something to whom, the patient to the analyst or vice versa, the dynamics are important, the very path of the process is important. Relationships are important. Value matters.

The analyst is the patient's rival in the struggle for freedom.

Body. Don't just look at yourself in the mirror. We see everything there, but not ourselves. We see in the mirror someone whose problems we solve, whose life we live, whom we save and destroy, we see there someone whom we love, but he is so far from us, beyond the portal of space and time. But not yourself. The one looking in the mirror has forgotten about himself, he searches, hides himself, transfers, introjects, defends himself.

The wedding invitee does not suit the wedding. A woman with the soul of an old woman does not wear a wedding dress.

It doesn't matter what you're doing if it doesn't concern you.

Look at your child, he knows absolutely everything about you that you do not know about yourself. Listen to him, he will tell you everything. It's not a fact that you can handle it.

If your parents are doctors, military men, teachers, "work in the organs", you may have very little chance of life.

The image of a bad mother, broadcast by the mother, is killing the life in the child.

Cold beer, green tea, water.

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