2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43
Trust in a person's opinion. Trust in his experience. Attention to the movement of his thoughts. Respect for the courage of knowledge.
This is an amazing moment when a thought goes beyond what was allowed by past experience and right here, before your eyes, new knowledge is born.
How many prohibitions bristle with a porcupine at the same second. How much anger and aggression towards the brave man who dared not to repeat after the others, but to do something of his own, something new. The laws of the crowd are aimed at averaging: there are no too stupid, but also no smart. If something is missing or something is too outstanding in stock, the crowd will correct it, erase it, correct it, lead to an average. There will be representatives of the crowd who will definitely point out the "mistakes", who will correct, say how it should be, who will guide you on the true path, on the path to nowhere, into the abyss, into the gray mediocre mass. And then the crowd will calm down. Then for the crowd, order and everything is right.
The most persistent and restless will be called insane and devalued. Everything is very simple, the mechanism has been worked out. The mechanism of reproduction of "scientific" and "practical" experience is precisely reproduction, but not the mechanism of discovery, insight, creativity. There is a clearly built hierarchy of information ownership, in it who first stood up, that and the sneakers. And if someone else uses the same information as an instrument of cognition and with the help of it makes his own discoveries, it is the sacred duty of the usurper of information to return the free-thinker to earth, to indicate the rank, place, and the number of permitted thoughts. The inner punishers of a person deliver so much unbearable pain that they must be directed outside, they must be addressed to another, otherwise they cannot survive, they cannot transfer themselves. For centuries, social consciousness has been built taking into account these punishers. Their breath is felt every day.
I really appreciate the space free from social punishers, free from generalized and stereotyped conglomerates of prohibition and fear, the space of the new in the field of scientific knowledge of the world. Free space for creation! A space where everyone, with their own unique features and characteristics, reveals their potential, their mission in the best sense of the word. Where, instead of fear and inner punishment reproduced by one's own psyche, there is safety and acceptance, support and joy of achievements. I assure you, there is no need to push others from the top of the pyramid in order to resist there, because this very pyramid is absent and you can step everywhere, we will all fit there, everyone has a place and there is a place for any discovery. Each of us is valuable and unique, each of us is needed here and loved very much. Believe it for a second!
How did you do it? How do you do that? What will it be? Very good questions to ask before you swatter with a fly swatter called "this can't be, because it can never be." And the sprout will still break through, even through the asphalt it will break through, the jade will sprout on the stones - this is the law of nature, which is larger than each of us, larger than society as a whole.
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