2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43
I will consider androgyny in a psychological sense, that is, the presence of masculine and feminine traits in the personality, in the character and behavior of the individual.
It has long been known that a person is bisexual from birth. Both masculine and feminine principles are initially embedded in the personality, just one of them dominates and is expressed to a greater extent, the second is suppressed by upbringing and the environment. However, in our society, especially in connection with the cult of freedom, the development of a tolerant attitude and open manifestation of oneself, people with traits of both sexes have become noticeable. I repeat that we are not talking about external signs, but about the psychological state (who a person feels like, what way he lives, etc.). The presence and manifestation of traits of the opposite sex in human behavior looks like this:
Women:
- decisive
- independent
- rational
- aggressive
- bold
- rude
Men:
- gentle
- caring
- indecisive
- fearful
- emotional
- pay great attention to details and trifles
I am sure you have encountered such people in your environment. To many, they seem strange, cause inexplicable rejection, sometimes a reluctance to communicate, especially when it comes to personal and sexual relationships. This is explained
- Our stereotypes from childhood
- Our sexual absoluteness (it is, of course, conventional, but everyone always understands the classic masculine testosterone man and the classic feminine estrogen woman. And we do not like it when people do not behave according to their sex.
But, for us, this is acceptable and even interesting if
- We are sufficiently informed by knowledge about a person, free (because we are educated) in our views on people
- We ourselves are carriers of traits of the opposite sex. And it is quite logical that we are attracted by people with a different set of traits, different from ours.
Androgyny of the individual PLUS is not a disadvantage at all. And no matter how opposed by society, an androgynous person is interesting, his views on life are broader and more diverse, since thinking can be in two ways. Both hemispheres are involved. He sees the world, solves problems, gets out of various situations, finds options and answers to questions both as M and as F, is able to change roles in a couple, while the couple does not lose their harmony. This is androgynous strength and uniqueness.
Androgyny of an individual MINUS - such a person can be conflicted and face rejection by society, as well as difficulties in building a personal life, finding a partner. People are often very traditional and conservative, something else that goes beyond the usual causes them fear and resentment. An androgyne who has not known or accepted himself may experience internal contradictions and have many complexes
HOW TO LIVE if you find yourself androgynous:
Correctly and competently use your special traits and character traits according to the situation in order to benefit, and not sow panic. Learn to manage this tool, knowing its strengths and weaknesses.
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