2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43
About 10 years ago, watching Carrie torment herself with love for Mr Big, celebrate the purchase of new Manolo Blahnik shoes with a glass of sparkling wine and never go to the toilet, if her lover is at home, I involuntarily tried on her image.
Here, here she is, a real girl, I want to be like that!
What is this ideal image?
Frivolously flees to Paris, without even thinking about employment issues. She broadcasts fake feminism, but with all her actions she says that she wants to "get on the hands" and that all her problems are solved by a man. Swears with Charlotte when she refuses to lend her money for an apartment. By the way, money was not stolen from her card, but … well, you remember about Manolo Blahnik shoes, right? Endless empty talk for 🍸 about materialism and obsession with men.
As Miranda notes in one of the episodes: "How is it that four women so smart have nothing to talk about other than boyfriends?"
And then, halfway to my dream, I suddenly realized that my dream sucks. As did Carrie, who embodied her.
I do not want run with a smile on high heels, pretending that everything is ok.
I do not want to be "saved" by a man.
I do not want indulge in consumerism, because less is more.
I do not want worry that a man hears me peeing at his house.
I do not want.
I am very happy that the era of imposed stereotypes about women is going down in history. And brave, open, real, supporting each other women - heroines who can be anything - come to the fore. 💔
My personal top women-centric TV series:
1. "The Marvelous Mrs. Meisel"
2. "Bold type"
3. "Girls"
4. "Big Little Lies"
5. "Why do women kill"
6. "Model rebels" ⠀
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