2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43
The client, a very cheerful and cheerful person with a very difficult fate, turned to me about the loss she was experiencing, she lost her mother. The state of grief began to pour out into somatic symptoms, arms and legs were taken away, a head ached, there was a feeling of complete disorder in the body, rolling down a mountain into an abyss
They lived with their mother all their lives, for more than 40 years, and such a loss exposed a huge number of problems, in addition to the loss itself. Responsibility for one's life and independent decision-making are only a small part of them …
Our contact and trust were established immediately, and the therapy went up to each other, which was clear from the "behavior" of the body and the improvement in well-being.
And now the moment has come, which I want to tell you about.
He entered the arena, CLOWN, huge and old, acquired in deep childhood, subpersonality, a huge part of the client, who has long been isolated and healed with her own life.
In childhood, when the client observed the discord and quarrels of the parents, she took on the role of a distractor, a mediator, an entertainer and a mass.
Yes, and got used to this role. And she, the role, had fun to the fullest, spoke in a comical voice in serious situations, reconciled everyone, intervened in order to extinguish any conflicts. CLOWN had a lot of positive things, he generously gave people humor and entertained everyone when it was sad …
Only now the client ceased to manage this part of her, as often happens, and then, when it was necessary to act from her serious, Adult part, from where it was possible, CLOWN would appear with his clownish "manners".
My first light "attempt" on CLOWN caused a violent reaction, like a child who is being robbed of his favorite toy, without which he cannot live. The client became ill, she closed at home, in the dark, cried and said that she was worthless, they did not reckon with her, she would never be able to experience joy again and would never be able to joke and amuse people again. The main thing, in her understanding, was that she did not harm anyone, and while making people laugh, she did a good deed. So why do they want to "take away" her clown from her …
Further, after a period of calming down and "stroking", the client "saw" CLOWN right in front of her as tall as an adult, with bright red hair, in clown shoes. And then we found out when and where he came from, and why he played such a big role in the client's life.
As a result of the work, the client decided not to get rid of such an important and necessary tool at all, but to make it manual, a miniature copy, a small toy in her hands, what he was supposed to be.
CLOWN has become a puppet in the hands of his mistress. After all, this is how it should be, this is how things should be in this world. Not the other way around.
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