2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43
- Why do you need a spider friend, why are you friends with her, if she is like that, - the discerning reader will ask, and he will be right
“The spider will not ask you if you want to be friends with her,” I will answer, and I’ll also be right
A spider friend will always spoil you - you will become nervous, hysterical and in the end - dead, burned out internally. This will mean that this creature completely devoured you. It is to the girls, next to whom he lives, on whose fates the "friend" - a spider, parasitizes, and these reflections are devoted.
Of course, "spider" is not a term, it is just a word that, in my subjective opinion, perfectly reveals the essence of such "friends". At the “deeply balzac” age, it is easy to calculate them - you will be her only friend (all the other friends have betrayed her long ago!), Most likely she is unmarried, childless and very worried about the fate of cats or dogs. If she has a dog, it is most likely a dog of a fighting breed. Younger individuals are camouflaged more carefully, because their goals are more ambitious. But, mediocrity, shamelessness, manipulation and firm confidence in their own superiority over the rest of the world will give out a spider at any age!
It doesn't matter at what age the female spider wants to be friends with you. Moreover, she will not ask you about it! If you are a successful and beautiful girl, if you are not ashamed to appear next to you in society, if you “have something to take” emotionally or, God forbid, materially - “write“lost”… the spider will be registered in your life for a long time, and maybe forever. In the beginning, it will let you know that you are the center of the universe. You will be pleased! And at this moment, the easiest way is not to notice her first bite and paralysis of her will.
Will paralysis is blocking your ability to critically assess the meaning of this friendship. How? Simple! The spider is always at the center of its web, right? Here, imagining only herself as the center of the universe, she, luring you into the sticky embrace of her friendship, for a short time will make you feel what it is like to be the center of a web, its little sticky world. Later, you will be shocked by her ability to decipher the system of values with lightning speed, to guess the weak points of the soul of a potential victim …
Spiders - secretive animals - sit quietly, in a beautiful sticky cobweb prepared in advance, quietly digesting the remains of the previous victim. The easiest way to meet a spider woman is in a closed office space. She knows how to evoke self-pity - this is her universal weapon, honed for decades. The spider female knows how to complain masterfully and absolutely about everything - about her exes (husbands and lovers), about the unprofessionalism of doctors (because of whom she remained childless), about the government and employers (because of whom there is no money), about the people around (from - because of them, the dogs suffer). And, if your parents have brought up the ability to sympathize and empathize, if you are resourceful in terms of vitality, you will become a friend (read victim) of a spider. You will certainly become!
Once in the net of this ruthless animal, in the continuation of your friendship with her, you will several times try to free yourself from the embrace of her tenacious noose legs. It won't work the first time! Having launched the “you owe me” program in your relationship, the spider clearly observes her interests! With skillful manipulation, she will force you to say goodbye to your other friends, cut off fans, and in the most "neglected" cases and relatives … After all, she needs you as a victim, therefore, the narrower your circle of contacts, the easier it is to manipulate you, which means it is easier receive life resources from you.
Sometimes a spider, falling under your personal charm, wants to not just suck you out, but to take your place!
Like two daughters-in-law from the fairy tale about Vasilisa - beautiful, she will try on your frog skin, hoping to become you. In this race, the first thing a young creature wants to do is get your husband. And believe me, knowing your secrets (you are friends), knowing the problems of the family from the inside, often spiders do it. Your (already former!) Friends, relatives, neighbors will talk to you about their romance … But you, bitten and intoxicated by spider venom, ignore all the warnings - after all, the spider is your best friend, almost a saint, she loves your child so much, she she is not capable of this … The older spider will try to get into your business, if there is one. At the same time, at first, she will even try to work well … However, day after day, the sense from her will become less and less, and more and more influence. One day you will see yourself - wrapped up and exhausted, trying to keep the company afloat … And next to it is the blooming and happy face of a spider. Most likely, the female spider will head the department related to finance - you are her source of food, you are her victim, her resource. O! Believe me, she will not let you forget about it! Petty stealing is the principle of a spider's life.
Gossip is another sure trump card of hers. They are always the product of her pathological envy. And gossip and spider envy, oh, how perverted! Certainly lowering your life status! You are the "best friend of the spider", you have achieved everything solely with the help of the connections and money of your parents-in-law, because you yourself, without them, would be an empty space, this is how a person who knows you well will say! Do you have a second higher education? So it was your mother-in-law who thrust you into this institute, because your stupidity could no longer stand! Have you got a “non-lover”? O! If the spider knows and you dare to want freedom - get ready for blackmail! Or, read above about how they treat their husbands. Lovers - there, in their networks! She is pathologically jealous of herself, strives to become you. That is why it takes away from you, bit by bit, all your selfhood …
For a spider, you are just an object, you seem to be even two-dimensional … You are a victim just for the sake of sacrifice. You are the cause of all her failures, you are a thing that she can easily exchange for another thing. And this, "other" thing can be either a dog, or a status, or a real thing … As soon as you (such a wretch!) Realize your "thing", its "spookiness" and decide to free yourself, then instantly turn into an enemy of the unfortunate, robbed by you suffering spider.
Such is the spider world …
If someone has already recognized in the spider his ex: a friend-godfather, a friend-neighbor, a friend-colleague - and the epithet "ex" is already applied to them - I am calm for you. You are free, and probably already vaccinated. However, if there is no immunity yet, look around carefully. Anyone can become a victim of a spider!
Of course, some of them have their own preferences, but if you are resourceful - you have excellent life data (energetic, positive, active, mentally healthy), then a spider, asking for a friend, may well be hunting you. Only the complete exposure of her - in the sense, understanding of her spider essence can help not to get into her sticky web.
Keep your eyes and ears open, and then no parasite can ruin your life!
Sincerely yours, Anna Solntseva
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